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A Little Introduction... - Krista's First Blog Post

Written by Krista Thielman on May 15, 2017

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That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this

My Toddler - Oh boy, or should I say, oh girl...

Written by Krista Thielman on Jul 1, 2017

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Our little girl, Jemma, just celebrated her 2-year birthday! We had an amazing day and so far this has been a very fun age. That being said, it has not been without it's share of challenging experiences. If you are breast feeding a toddler, than you know how difficult this can be. From all of the judgement you get from others, and the frustration you and your LO feel when the milk supply starts to diminish, it can be a very stressful ordeal. Here is a very short post about breast feeding. While nursing can be a very rewarding experience for mom and nurturing experience for baby, it can also be a source of stress, pain, doubt, guilt, and other not-so-great things. That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! Here is a very short pos

Krista's First Blog Post - Welcome to Krista's Sistas!

Written by Krista Thielman on Jun 15, 2018

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What is Krista's Sistas, you might ask? I've had to ask it myself several times in creating this site. Even as I write this, I am still in the middle of the process and fine-tuning it as I go. It may start out as one thing, grow to be another - kind of like how raising children and becoming a mother can be. We don't really know until it happens, and even then we are re-defining ourselves, what we thought it should be like, and hoping to keep our principles intact in the process. But, as any mother can attest to, there are a hundred reasons why we do the things we do, and just why there is a Krista's Sistas. . .
Becoming a new mother changes just about everything, and many of those things I didn't even realize until it hit me a year later like a ton of Legos. Some people emphasize

The "J" Word - Getting a handle on judgement

Written by Krista Thielman on Jun 18, 2018

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So there's this "J" word gets thrown around a lot in the mommy realm, and it's an interesting concept I've thought a lot about. It starts when we are in our early twenties, watching a tantrum unfold at the supermarket. We lean to our friend and side-whisper judgingly, "MY kid will NEVER act like that!"
**wipes tears from hard laughter (with maybe some real tears in there)**
I have this theory that for every time I have ignorantly said something to that effect out loud, the tantrum fairy has granted me a whopping fit for every ill-informed judgement I've made. My theory also contends, however, that this is all part of motherhood - or pre-motherhood. Every mom (or pre-mom) needs a little dose of those fantastical judgements upon entering motherhood, to then, after some time

Adjusting Our Lenses

Written by Krista Thielman on Jun 18, 2018

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My daughter will soon be growing - ever too quickly - into another year of life, and while I am still a "pup" in mom years myself, I do feel like, along with her, I am beginning to grow and make my way across the new mom hump. Meaning: the honeymoon phase of how I view my child has passed (at least slightly); I am beginning to feel more comfortable in my parenting style; and I bathe more frequently. And so when I meet new moms and their babies - after first drooling all over them (me, not the babies) - I notice that I now have that one, seasoned mom pearl of wisdom I tend to share across the board. I always joke that I am only confident in my non-confidence, because I have never felt worthy of giving advice until my kids were fully grown and not living in a box somewhere cursing me. I don

Learning to Let Go - Choosing Sanity over Control

Written by Krista Thielman on Feb 11, 2019

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If I had to pick one of the most challenging parts of parenting, it's letting go. Or, if I'm being brutally honest, giving up control. It sounds silly, especially because one of the biggest things we remind ourselves when times are tough is that one day our children will get older and won't need us as much. Personally, though, I love the control. I love picking out her matching outfits, deciding where, what, and whom she'll play with, her menu, her overall daily itinerary, and kissing and holding her whenever I want (and whether or not she does). . .
Imagine, for a second, if your spouse, friends, etc. dictated about 90% of your day. And not even just what you'll do, but how you'll do it. "Make sure when you do the dishes it's by hand and not using the dishwasher, and don't make

Don't Forget to Thank your Mother

Written by Krista Thielman on Feb 11, 2019

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If I had to sum up the way I thought about my mother growing up, it would be that she always knew just what to do. She taught me that I could never really mess up artwork, but that it was always fixable - just another part of the picture. She came up with a secret code that I could call her with if a sleepover wasn't going as planned, and always came up with the perfect excuse for me to leave. I once heard her dedicate the song, "Little Bitty" to me on the radio, to make me feel better about being the smallest of my friends. Once in a while she'd sneak me small gifts, or a trip to get McDonald's breakfast, and it was not only significant because money was tight, but because it was just between her and I. She'd wink at me in that don't-tell-your-brothers kind of way, and I loved how, befor

Life Finds a Way! - Embracing Life's "Little Surprises"

Written by Krista Thielman on Feb 11, 2019

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Setting: Friday afternoon in the summer, both home early from work, doing odd and end things around the house until I break the silence.
Me: "Honey, can we talk about something for a minute. It's been on my mind for a while."
Honey: "Sure, what is it?"
Me: "Well, I know we've talked in the past about having a second child around this time, but how would you feel waiting another year or two, or possibly just having one. . .?"
Honey: "Honestly, I'm happy right now. If you wanted to have another one now that'd be great, I could wait, or just have our girl. I'm not against having one. But I am content with how things are now." ::smiles at me::
Me: "Phew! It feels good to hear you say that. I'm just not as ready as I thoug

Oh the woes of breast feeding... - A gentle guide for mothers with questions

Written by Krista Thielman on Jul 15, 2020

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Here is a very short post about breast feeding. While nursing can be a very rewarding experience for mom and nurturing experience for baby, it can also be a source of stress, pain, doubt, guilt, and other not-so-great things. That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! Here is a very short post about breast feeding. While nursing can be a very rewarding experience for mom and nurturing experience for baby, it can also be a source of stress, pain, doubt, guilt, and other not-so-great things. That's why I am here to help you and your little one get the most out of this overall wonderful thing! Here is a very short post about breast feeding. While nursing can be a very rewarding experience for mom and nurturing experience for baby, i